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height=\"16\">\u003C\u002Fspan>在电视或新闻中，常常看到一些超级自信的父母，觉得自己懂得孩子的一切，甚至想着控制孩子的人生。而孩子呢，却拼尽全力在进行反抗，努力维护自己的独立和尊严。或是无声地抗议，或者是激烈的反击。 有多少亲子关系，都毁在“你不懂我”。\u003C\u002Fdiv>\n\u003Cdiv dir=\"auto\">⁣\u003C\u002Fdiv>\n\u003Cdiv dir=\"auto\">\u003Cspan class=\"html-span xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x1hl2dhg x16tdsg8 x1vvkbs x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xat24cr xgzva0m xhhsvwb xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od\">\u003Cimg class=\"xz74otr\" src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fstatic.xx.fbcdn.net\u002Fimages\u002Femoji.php\u002Fv9\u002Ft9f\u002F1\u002F16\u002F1f97e.png\" alt=\"🥾\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\">\u003C\u002Fspan>比如当孩子自己系不上鞋带时，有时候不知道怎样打结，或者系成了一个大疙瘩也是会急得想哭。但如果我们每次都平和示范，重新解开让孩子再来一次，补充说“大不了从头再来一次，我相信你能做好。这样，以后她遇到做不好的事，渐渐有了自己一次又一次尝试去做的意识，就不会靠着哭。\u003C\u002Fdiv>\n\u003Cdiv dir=\"auto\">⁣\u003C\u002Fdiv>\n\u003Cdiv dir=\"auto\">在陪伴孩子成长的过程中，父母要努力读懂孩子的语言与行为，至少在你打算教训孩子时，或者有给孩子贴标签的冲动前，先让自己冷静3-5分钟，因为，也许事情并不是你想象的那样。\u003C\u002Fdiv>\n\u003Cdiv dir=\"auto\">⁣\u003C\u002Fdiv>\n\u003Cdiv 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